Its time for another round at Adult Friend Finder success stories. This time with a different twist, its not a success story. This one was so strange I had to grab it anyway. I found this in the Adult Friend Finder Blogs. This guy just could not understand she was NOT attracted to him. Now she hopes he will see her blog and finally get it!

This morning when I was writing my earlier post I said to myself I will not post any emails today.
Sometimes a good example of what you are trying to say explains it all.
The following email is an example of what I was getting at this morning.

I got my first email from him a few days ago.

I saw your sexy profile and pic and was hoping you would check out mine aswell, I would love to please you in ever way I can. I enjoy give back massages among other things. So take a look at my Profile and see if you are intrested in taking this a little further. I know i would love to talk to you, and see what happens. my direct email is screen name or if you rather call me my cell is 678 blah blah If you have any questions for me or want to see more pics of me you can contact me. I have a live in girl friend and we are like room mates too. Im not looking to leave her or try to replace her. I just want to have some great sex with a person that is responsible and clean. If you think i sound like the guy for you please email or call me soon. I have my own business with flexable hours so it will be easier to meet. Well I hope to hear from you soon.
JOHN

What was wrong with this email? Other then it sounded like other emails I get it did not capture my attention enough to want to know more. Also, he sent a photo and I was not attracted to him.

I did reply to him and I used the, I am looking for a different physical type, instant reply, in other words I am not attracted to him.

NEXT…

I would love to chat online with you very soon. I think we have more encommon than you think. I really liked your personality from what ive gotten so far. There is only one way to find out and that is too. give me a chance to chat on line thur msn messenger or yahoo. I have msn myself . Well im not trying to bug you or change your mind but it is very hard to get a fill for a person on this site in my experience , from just one email . So one question for you why did you say your looking for a different physical type. I reall do hope you will take the next step and chat with me . I want more than just sex myself. Well just think about it and if you are intrested a little email me back and lets set a time to chat online and see what happens from there, OK . Im sending you a better pic of myself. I hope you like it.
Yours truely,
JOHN

What is wrong with this email? Not only is it a second plea for me to chat with someone I have no interest in he is now in the refusal stage. He refuses to understand that I AM NOT INTERESTED means I AM NOT INTERESTED! He did not pick up on the reply I sent him that, Physical Type could possibly mean not attracted. Unlike him I do use emails, profiles and sometimes blog post and comments to get a feel for the person. His emails are full of spelling errors and he is sounding very desperate which is a BIG TURN OFF.

Soooooo I used one of my email quotas to send another note

Not sure if it was the instant reply or a personal one but I AM NOT interested.

Next…

I just dont understand why your are not intrested ? first it was a personal reply. I dont have auto reply. Im very straight forward and dont understand why you are not intrested in atlest chating with me. What can it hurt? I have almost the exact intrest as you in a relationship. I wonder if that scares you off. Well i want email you anymore, if you feel that strongley about NOT BEING INTRESTED IN ME . I hope you would atleast talk to me one time . Im a very nice and laied back type person. That can be very serious, or very silly depending on the situation.
JOHN

Whats wrong with this email? LOL, Do I have to explain? He is totally confused now. Ok I was not completely clear in my email to him that I can use lame instant replies or personal replies. Unlike some he did get two, I AM NOT INTERESTED notes from me so ya think it might register soon.

I am not sending him another email. If I did I am sure it would have said something like this,

I am not interested in you because I do not find you attractive.
I do not want to say, sorry, I do not find you attractive. I would rather you understand that, I am not interested means just that.
It would not hurt one bit to chat with you but why would I want to do that if I have no interest in you?
I am sure you have the exact interest as I do in a relationship but you seem to be missing one very important point, it is called mutual attraction. Yep, that means both parties are attracted to each other and want very much to pursue this. So far the only thing that is scaring me is the fact that some people just have not got a clue.

Ok, now I feel better. Maybe he will see this blog, maybe not.

I am confused though is she saying she is not interested in this guy

Now do not let this scare you and go check out the blogs at Adult Friend Finder. They have some xxxxxxx pics and some hot stories too.

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